Changing Like a Kindergarten Kid
This is a busy month in my household. School begins in a couple of weeks; our oldest child starts kindergarten.
For adults, kindergarten is in the distant past, and our memories of it have faded. It’s only natural as we grow and mature.
But it’s a formative transition. It sets the stage for lifelong learning and growing. It’s an essential building block for a positive, impactful, and meaningful life.
Not unlike your first year as a freelancer.
I’ve noticed, as we prepare my daughter, that moving into kindergarten and moving into a freelance career are much alike, with similar challenges and opportunities. That’s what I’ll be writing about this week.
Kindergarten will change my daughter’s life. And if you’re going to change your life with a move from full-time employment to freelancing, it’s essential that you craft a transition plan. Freelance life is a whole new world, with different rules and expectations — just like school.
For example, both settings have new people to please.
My daughter will be pleasing her teachers. You’ll be proving that you can research or write or take pictures. You’ll be portraying yourself online in a new way; she’ll be wearing new clothes and behaving differently than she does at home.
You and your family need to be ready for change.
At the beginning of the summer, my wife and I sat down and talked about what we wanted to accomplish before school began in line with our values and goals. We talked through how this transition would affect our family. Because this is big step for all of us — both practically and emotionally — asking questions, talking it through, and building a plan served us well.
We prioritized fun this summer: trips, swimming, and play dates. But we also worked hard to get ready for school. We practiced reading and shoe tying. We bought clothes, pulled together school supplies, and figured out the school schedule.
We realized that our child and our family will shortly be living up to new expectations and structures.
The same is true for new freelancers. To some degree, the old rules and habits no longer apply. And even though it’s “your” career, your whole family will be affected.
That’s why you must be aware how your plans to leave your old work and move to new work will also impact those around you.
I think it’s really valuable to sit down and ask yourself (and your loved ones) some questions before moving forward with the freelance life:
- What do I want my life, post-transition, to look like? Do we want to pay down the mortgage faster or visit Belize?
- What does my family want to get out of my move to a freelance career? Does my wife want me to take the kids to gymnastics on Wednesdays?
- What can I do now to smooth the transition? Can I find a mentor or a network or a program to help?
- Are there essential skills I need before I start being a freelancer? How can I enlist my family to help me get those skills? Is there a program I can take to help me develop those skills?
Many of the people who are part of the AWAI family are glad to help you with these questions. Many members are established freelancers who find value in sharing what they know. Experience is key — and if you’re a beginner, it can be hard to find.
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