How a Cup of Coffee Inspired Gratitude

Journal titled “Today is going to be great” and a cup of coffee

What if you personally thanked the individual people who made your cup of coffee possible? That’s what writer and Ted Talk speaker AJ Jacobs did.

In his Ted Talk, entitled, “My Journey to Thank All the People Responsible for My Morning Coffee,” he talks about his tendency to find things annoying and how he sought to change that habit.

In his presentation, he shares how this idea grew out of a family tradition he’d started before meals. In his effort to transform annoyance to gratitude, he’d have a little prayer where he’d thank the farmers, truck drivers, and cashiers who made his family’s meal possible. But his 10-year-old said, “Dad, they aren’t here so they can’t hear you.”

Not being one to deny the wisdom of kids, Jacobs decided to personally thank everyone involved in the making of his morning coffee.

He ended up calling the ensuing project, “Thanks a thousand.” Because he thanked over a thousand people involved in his morning coffee.

Astounding, isn’t it?

He started with the coffee barista at his local coffee shop. She appreciated the gesture and told her how few people acknowledged her during a typical shift.

Then he thanked the guy — Ed Kaufman — who chooses the beans for the coffee shop. In return, Ed introduced him to the experience of coffee tasting. Like a wine sommelier, there is a process of savoring the coffee and tasting different flavors within it and Ed helped him experience it.

Next, he learned about coffee lids and the passion of the guy who makes them — Doug Fleming. Doug says a bad lid can ruin your coffee experience by blocking the aroma.

One of the things Jacobs said really stuck with me, “If it works well, it’s largely invisible, there are masterpieces all around us.”

And it got me thinking. He’s right.

When things work well, we don’t notice them.

Let me share how this resonated with me …

Three weeks ago, my partner almost died. His heart was slowly giving out. It was at 29 beats per minute on Tuesday down to 9 beats per minute on Friday as he was wheeled into surgery.

Two hours later and outfitted with a pacemaker, he was laughing and cracking jokes.

A pacemaker is a miracle piece of machinery.

Without it, he wouldn’t be alive.

And without my freelance writing business, we wouldn’t have been in Mexico where the surgery was one-tenth the price of the U.S., with top-notch care.

I’m grateful for the knowledge of the medical team and everyone who helped make it possible. I’m grateful for the friends and family who helped us pay for the unexpected surgery.

I’m grateful for my persistence in pursuing a freelance writing career and learning all that goes with it — from improving my writing to learning how to run a business.

It’s not always easy but it sure beats the alternative.

And on it goes.

In fact, everything I’m grateful for is interconnected with everything else. Which is what Jacobs discovered when he went on his quest to personally thank everyone involved in his morning cup of coffee.

What about you?

Here’s a fun little gratitude exercise.

Take a piece of paper and a pen.

Choose one thing you’re grateful for and write it at the top. Maybe it’s your morning coffee or clean drinking water, or electricity, or whatever.

Then, list all the jobs you can think of associated with that item.

Following Jacob’s example, Rick and I can be grateful for the cardiologist and his team as well as the rest of the hospital staff who made his care possible. We can thank the general practitioner who sent him for blood work and the lab technicians who handled it. We can thank the taxi driver who drove us to the hospital, and people who paved the highway, and the construction workers who built the hospital.

You see how it quickly becomes a long list.

And let me add … I thank everyone associated with AWAI who’ve helped me gain the writing and business skills I need to build a writing business. I thank the generosity of the freelance writing community for sharing tips and pep talks when things aren’t going my way. And I thank you for reading this as part of your writer’s life journey.

In fact, I’m adding to my gratitude list daily.

What about you?

If you write a list of things you can be grateful for, you just may surprise yourself. 2020 has been chaotic in many ways, but even in this crazy year, there’s a lot to be grateful for.

What are you grateful for in this crazy year? Share with us in the comments.

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Published: November 26, 2020

6 Responses to “How a Cup of Coffee Inspired Gratitude”

  1. I’m great full for my bed and pillows and blankets.
    If I have a bed and pillows and a blanket, that normally means I have a roof and at least four walls holding that roof up with a door to shut. meaning I’m not homeless and or cold.
    Being subjected to everyone and everything, at times has cost me sanity. Having a safe place to be where I can lock the door, brought the sanity back.

    Guest (HEATHER MORALES)November 26, 2020 at 8:09 am

  2. Unfortunately it has been a year for the record books, with the losses of close friends and family, the unpredictability of the state of our country throughout this whole crazy pandemic, but 2020 seemed to have taken the rose colored glasses off of us all,and gave us a honest view at ourselves, our divisions as individuals, and our similarities as humans. Fact is, no one gets off the planet alive, and hopefully if nothing else, 2020 has instilled in us the importance of teamwork and compassion for others, of course its not an overnight cure, but we can't say we didn't get our 2021 assignment.
    Thanks again for the great minds associated with AWAI, and let's get through this together.

    Clayton J. Cansler Jr.

    Guest (Clayton)November 26, 2020 at 9:54 am

  3. When I woke up, the first thing I saw on this Thanksgiving morning was a large painting of the Savior hugging a man that doesn't look like me. But I can imagine myself in his place. The painting illustrates the literal meaning of at-one-ment or reconciliation--being one with the Savior. I'm thankful, first and foremost, for Jesus. He has made life possible in this world and in the eternities. Nothing could be better than that.

    Craig BattrickNovember 26, 2020 at 10:10 am

  4. I am thankful for 1) doctors who were able this past 12 months to save my sight and life from Giant Cell Arteritis, an abdominal aortic aneurysm and a 15 centimeter blood clot caught by a filter before it hit my heart prior to surgery my back; meds and brace which have enabled me to exercise and get enough strength to walk again; my wife who has cared for me while she dealt with lymphedema and a new heart valve problem; writing experience which helps me sync well with Jay Smith's Email Training.

    Danny LNovember 26, 2020 at 12:58 pm

  5. I'm thankful I have free internet included in my rent and am now a COS member. I thankful for AWAI; for their helpful, upbeat guidance. I'm thankful the AWAI team is still able to function despite all the business shutdowns happening because of Covid. I'm thankful for my COS counselor who got me started on a straight path. I'm thankful that age doesn't matter in being a copywriter. I'm thankful I still have a good brain that can think.
    Thank You God for all the above.

    Clara Mae November 26, 2020 at 10:08 pm

  6. Hey Rebecca,

    Just a word to thank you and your staff for enlightening MY CUSTOMER JOURNEY with your continual, daunting content in your informative web marketing pieces...

    And of course...
    Your wonderfully comprehensive on-demand copywriting training programs!

    I've come to consider you to be the juggernaut of on-demand copywriting training.

    Holiday cheer to all, Al LaPorte

    Guest (Alfred)December 1, 2020 at 4:20 am


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